sex
Hope... Virtue... Solitude... Devotion... Sorrow... Love...
a very open post with regards as the topic states
dun read if u think u are going to be uncomfortable
is virginity really that much a rarity?
raymond even commented that virgins in our age...
are so-called "rare species"
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really mah?
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yea i guess so
amongst the group of frens i have
about half of them are not virgins anymore
a small handful still a virgin but had sexual contact
*Xile(not real name) i am kinda refering to u and ur bunch of frens*
just recently bout a week or so ago
channel U's talk show "Lets Shoot" was on this topic
a young lady about my age had 17 partners in total
and her first time was when she was 14 years old
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when i was 14 i think i was bz stoning thru my sec sch life
someone i know from the past was pregnant at age 17
when the news of her came to me
it literally threw me off balance
i suppose her kid is now 3 years old
J****y drew 3 times first blood
thats the best thing i've heard since NS
Y***n got his first time in a changing room
and i kinda got edgy whenever i go shop for clothes now
J******n did his first time in a swimming pool
and constantly visit hotels for his needs
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someone actually told me he'd reco a girl to me
Hotel 81 $20 first hour $10 consecutive hours
HAH! no thx, i am not a beast like some gd frens of mine
i am doing it only with my girl
sex or love?
love or sex?
is making love equals to sex?
common questions ppl ask me
Qns: are u a virgin?
Ans: yes i am
Qns: would u have sex before marriage?
Ans: its the 21st century, i'm a open guy, so i dun mind and probably will
Qns: would u be ok dying a virgin?
Ans: i dun want, but i
REALLY dun mind
Qns: to u, is sex a big part of love?
Ans: making love and sex is actually different in my view, making love would of cos be a big part, but if its just the lust u are coveting, den no, its not
Qns: wads ur view of sex/making love?
Ans: its a very normal thing to do, and from the situation i am in, i really wouldn't be surprise to know if ALL my frens are no longer virgins
Qns: u ever fantasize?
Ans: yes
Qns: ONS?
Ans: NO
Qns: how would u like ur first time to be like?
Ans: with the girl i love of cos, in the rite mood, at the rite place, of the rite time... somewhere normal, not closet or swimming pool
Qns: since u are a V, have u ever encounter close sex calls?
Ans: yea... some stupid reco, but it din feel right, so i din even meet the girl, to some ppl, it basically means i chicken out
Qns: u had gf and dates and scandals before din u?
Ans: duh
Qns: so why din u go ahead?
Ans: not in the rite mood, not at the rite place, not of the rite time
Qns: do u wanna lose ur virginity now?
Ans: hah, no, i take things in my stride
Qns: ok one last question, dun u have the NEED?
Ans: i'm a guy, wad u think
ok well secrets all out
we gotta face this topic one day
have been talking to some frens about it for some time
i only think its time for us to get open about such things
and dun cower behind conservations when its the 21st century
wads more all those who read my blog are alrdy 20+ i guess
The tears dropped on
Friday, December 21, 2007...
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